If "use me" is a statement spoken by a trusted friend, counselor, or the partner themselves, it highlights the power of human accountability.
In relational economics, there is no such thing as a "free" fix. The cost of this arrangement is the erasure of the speaker’s subjectivity. To be "used" as a mechanism to ensure faithfulness requires the speaker to constantly curate themselves to suit the partner's needs, lest the partner lose interest and stray. The speaker must suppress their own bad moods, their own needs, and their own complexities to remain an effective "fix." use me to stay faithful free fix
You don’t need another app. You need a moment of choice. If "use me" is a statement spoken by