Despite these criticisms, the core message—that attraction is cultivated through self-mastery, not tricks—has resonated with thousands of readers. The book has a strong rating on Goodreads, with 47% of reviewers awarding 5 stars and 29% awarding 4 stars. As one reviewer wisely noted: “Two of the best points in this book are ‘Attraction grows in space’ and ‘Alpha men are not born, they are made.’ Attraction is a quality that can be cultivated and grown. It is never static”.