This is not an argument for ignoring your partner. It is a recognition that the intense early years of parenting, particularly from a mother’s perspective, require a realignment of expectations. The "Mom Comes First" philosophy offers a resolution to this debate: A supported, rested, and fulfilled mother has infinitely more patience, love, and joy to give to both her children and her spouse.
"MomComesFirst" is not "Mom Only." It is not neglect. It is a hierarchy of needs:
Prioritizing mom comes with a range of benefits, including: